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  • November22nd

    Quick – what 3 things are you Thankful for RIGHT NOW? Like this instant?

    Mine:
    1. the Vanilla Chai tea I’m drinking
    2. looking down and seeing these precious lil faces at my keyboard
    3.  my Grandmother Hartman’s Cameo brooch / necklace I’m wearing today

    It’s that easy to Give Thanks at any moment of the day.

    • Happy Thanksgiving Week •

    * did I mention Thanksgiving is my favorite Holiday? because it is ;)

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    When you need a little more than a smile or a cup of tea to get your week in motion, the Sassy Starter will be here every Monday to get your wheels turnin’ in a classy – sassy – fabulous sort of way.

  • September24th

    Tomorrow evening my Soul Sister, the Charlotte to my Carrie, is getting married to the love of her life.  This week’s Mah-velous Magnolia badge goes out to Sarah M. Alvarez.

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    Sarah and I met at a party right after the end of our Junior year of high school and were near inseparable after that.  Through ups and downs, ins and outs, fall outs and fall ins, we’ve spent the last 9 years as many friends have. We’ve drifted in and out of each others lives, going to separate colleges and moving to separate cities after graduation but one thing has always remained constant. That one thing being that no matter what has happened or what is happening, the one thing you can hold onto that never changes – we both just understand.

    It doesn’t matter what reason I’ve called or emailed, I know she’ll understand. She just gets it. And that’s rare to find these days. Never trying to change one another and taking life one situation at a time – whether it be filled with tears or laughter – is how we have seemed to keep our Soul Sisterly bond in tact over these past 9 years.

    Did I mention we sing to you on special occasions? But only the Grease Mega Mix.

    Near polar opposites, it makes me laugh as I look at all the ways we differ. The hopeless romantic never gave up on this once bitterly cynical sarcastic and eventually rubbed off on her a little. Now whether or not the high fashion princess part will do the same is up in the air — well, maybe the princess part is already there but I’m not too sure about the high fashion, I do love my layered, lounging habits. ;)  But maybe that’s why it works. We balance each other out in some crazy, off the wall kind of way.

    And so tomorrow as Sarah marries her Prince Charming – her Harry, if you will – I wouldn’t be surprised if this Sassy Steel Magnolia finds herself coming to tears.  This Carrie’s Charlotte is beginning a whole new Fairy Tale, one that she never gave up on, one that should inspire us all.

    Congratulations to my wonderful Soul Sister, Sarah, and her Knight in Shining Armour, Kevin.

    Cheers!

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    The Mah-velous Magnolia badge will be awarded each Friday to a selected lady {or a few..or fellas..we’ll see!} who has had an impact on my week.  Who knows — maybe you’ll be up next!

  • August31st

    Not since Valley of the Dolls has a book, so quickly, moved into my Top 5. Very few stories have moved me to all 3 out louds – cried, gasped & laughed – but I am delighted to add this one to the elite group.

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    I’d seen this book everywhere, almost picked it up at least thirty different times. It wasn’t until a fabulous photographer friend of mine, Jenny Anderson, mentioned it on twitter that I took the plunge and picked it up two nights later at Target. I officially started the book on a Thursday night after work and stayed up till 2 .am. the following night to finish it. I was that encompassed in the story, the characters, the writing…everything.

    :: Jump a train and join a traveling circus in August’s Book of the Month ::

    Water for Elephants by Sara Gruen

    My best description of the book is a love story wrapped up in a grimy, twisted, traveling circus, told by an elderly man who instantly grabs hold to your heart.

    “When two people are meant to be together, they will be together. It’s fate.” – Jacob Jankowski

    Gruen weaves such a tale with impeccable attention to detail, both graphic and historical, that you are quite literally picked up and set on the train traveling along with Jacob, Queenie and the whole Benzini Brothers Most Spectacular Show on Earth.

    From sleazy, secret sideshow acts to the glitz and glitter of kinker’s costumes. There are clearly status lines drawn amongst the traveling circus where money is the bottom line and the show must always go on.

    Raw emotion and circumstance are explored throughout the novel, one right after the other, in such a striking manner that you truly see the ins and outs of human nature. The surprising heroine pulls on your heart with every lift of her trunk. And the ending is one I would have never seen coming but astonishingly found to be absolutely perfect in every possible way.

    “For this old man, this is home.” – Jacob Jankowski

    I don’t think I could say enough good things about Water for Elephants. I don’t want to write too much about it for fear of giving away too much information. (The twists are part of what makes it a page turner.)  You can wait of course until the movie is released next year, but believe me on this one – this is a story you don’t want to wait for …. so go get your copy and start reading! Maybe you’ll find yourself staying up into the wee hours of the early morning see just what exactly happens to that sweet, untamed , 90-something-year-old Jacob Jankowski.

    :: happy reading ::

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    Pick up Water for Elephants here at The Sassy Steel Magnolia eStore.

  • July15th

    i ♥ a good summer storm.

    :: they spring up in mid-afternoon & last from 2 minutes to 2 hours. there’s just something about summer storms. my only hope is that 1 day instead of watching them from my office building and dreaming, i’ll be watching them in a gorgeous outdoor patio room {like the ones below} sipping a sweet summer time drink, listening to billie holiday, writing letters to dear diary or reading myself away. ::

    photo credit: summer storm escape one, two

  • June10th

    { Antique Things }

    .found on flickr.

    i love flickr. i could spend hours looking through photos on flickr.

    photo credits: books, bottle, dishware, chandelier, luggage, furniture