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  • February21st

    When it comes to religion, I make it a rule to keep my thoughts and views quite private and rarely discuss the subject matter openly. Because tomorrow is Ash Wednesday – the beginning of the Season of Lent, my favorite religious Season – I’m going to break my rule a little bit. But just for this post.

    As the Cradle Catholic that I am – born, baptized and confirmed in the Catholic Church – Lent has always been a big part of the year for me. Although I’ve grown less strict in regards to practicing the Catholic Faith over the years and my views on spirituality have broadened to encompass many aspects of other religions, Lent has always held a very special place in my heart.

    If you aren’t all that familiar, a basic rundown of the Season of Lent goes like this:

    Lent begins with Ash Wednesday and lasts for 40 days. Catholics are asked to do modest mortifications and acts of penance during Lent for the purification of the body and soul. Lent is a time of confession, fasting, abstinence, more prayer, [...] and more spiritual and corporal works of mercy. – Catholicism for Dummies 

    It’s like pushing the restart button on your current life situation. A 40 day meditation to step back and take a look at everything. Yes this is something that we should all do every day regardless of the time of year, but for most of us that doesn’t happen. With Lent, there’s just something about it being a sanctioned occurrence that almost gives a bit more hope that you’ll end the 40 days in a better place than where you started.

    Call me naive, but I like the thought that millions of people all across the world are gearing up for these next 40 days, in the pursuit of bettering themselves for the betterment of all. Did I get a little too We are the World just now? Little bit? Oh well.

    I’m a big proponent that you don’t have to be Catholic to celebrate the basic principles of Lent. I borrow Holidays and celebrations from other religions all the time. (I just like celebrating, can you tell?) Along with the penance and reflection part, I give something up – I always do better with tangible items – then I try to add something good. And I don’t cheat on Sundays. Posers.

    This year I’m giving up pizza. Sounds easy, right? Not so much considering the fact I’ve found myself eating it 3 to 4 times a week for dinner and then left overs. As for the something good I’m adding, well that one’s going to remain private. (I gotta keep somethin to myself on this one.) But I’ll let you know how it all works out.

    So what do you think? Going to give the Season of Lent a go this year? Push the restart button? Get your mental groove back? Think about it and get back to me. We can keep each other in check.

    And since tomorrow is Ash Wednesday that means today is Fat Tuesday. (another wonderful celebration, might I add) And so I leave you with a reminder that Good Things Happen on Tuesdays and therefore …….

    Laissez les bons temps rouler, petits bébés!

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  • July14th

    three years ago today, my world came to a complete stand still.

    three years ago today, i made the calls to dear friends letting them know.

    three years ago today, i learned what true heartache feels like.

    three years ago today, the greatest change i could have never imagined began.

    three years ago today, i started to really understand what it is to love.

    three years ago today, my Father went up to the Big Garden in the Sky.

    and three years ago today, his youngest started to find her own way.

    Stephen F. Fiechtl

    October 10, 1946 – July 14, 2008

    “It’s in the bag.”

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  • September30th

    One of the greatest things a woman can do is help another woman. Over this past year with The Sassy Steel Magnolia I have come to know this more and more with each post, each reader I meet and each woman I come in contact with every day.  That’s why for me today’s celebration post is more important than any other one this week….

    For a part of The SSM’s birthday celebration I want to ask you, each and every one of you, to Help a Sister Out. Give hope. Give support. Give strength. Take a few minutes, spare a few dollars, and make a donation to My Sister’s House.

    Founded in 1980, My Sister’s House is a nonprofit organization providing resources, education and programs to empower victims of domestic violence, and their children, to live a life free from abuse.

    Serving victims and educating the communities of Berkeley, Charleston and Dorchester counties in South Carolina, My Sister’s House not only operates an emergency shelter for victims but offers a 24-hour crisis line, counseling, assistance with basic necessities, support groups, court advocacy and much, much more.

    Did you know that an act of domestic violence occurs every 13 seconds in the United States? Or that 6 million American women are beaten each year by their husbands or boyfriends; 4,000 of them are killed? Have you ever stopped to think how little it takes to help one of these women, to give them a glimmer of hope or strength to rise above?

    You’d be surprised what a mere $5.00 can do and how far even $15 can go. So now I’m calling on you my dear readers to pull out those debit cards and HELP A SISTER OUT! If you’ve been wondering what you can get The SSM for our birthday celebration, here is your chance. I’m not asking for much and you don’t even have to come back and tell me what you donated….all I’m asking is for you to Help a Sister Out at My Sister’s House.

    To make an online donation simply go here and follow the screens.  If you’d like to mail in a check, send it to:

    My Sister’s House, Inc.
    PO Box 71171
    North Charleston, SC 29415

    For more information on My Sister’s House and other ways you can get involved in helping a sister out, visit their Web site here.

    Come on ladies [and gents], it’s a birthday celebration request! Besides, do you really need that stop at Starbucks today? And I bet if you wait till next week, that new dress you saw will still be there, and maybe on sale…I’m just sayin.

    It’s time to put an end to the cycle of domestic violence.

    I’ve already made my donation this morning….your turn. I’ll go ahead and tell you Thank You ;)

    -♥-

  • August24th

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    Are you a character? Then take the pledge.

    My latest pledge:

    In September of 2009 I posted Characters Unite with my first pledge. In January I posted Take the Pledge to make more people aware of such a great cause. I’m here posting again and I’ll keep posting until characters unite touches each and every one of you.

    Take the pledge. Make a conscious effort each and every day to make this world a better place. It’s easy. Not sure where to start? Try one or two of the 50 Things You Can do to Unite the USA. Just one step at a time and little by little.

    How can we expect to help another when we can not except another?

    Take the Pledge

  • July14th

    Dear Daddy,

    The hardest thing I’ve ever had to do was learn how to live without you.

    I love you Pops, happy Heaven day.

    love and hugs from your youngest,

    Jennie Boo

    *and I hope you are keeping up your end of the bargain, as we both know I’m trying my hardest to keep up with mine! ;)

    • Stephen Francis Fiechtl •

    October 10, 1946 – July 14, 2008

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    What a beautiful life, just like a Dixie Lullaby..

    Pat Green – Dixie Lullaby

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