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  • February16th

    Remember in yesterday’s post I mentioned my sporadic outbursts of dancing when I think no one’s watching? Well, here’s one of the songs that gets me every time. I learned a dance to the chorus of this song my sophomore year of college from my coach, Casey, and it’s stayed with me ever since. I hardly remember the steps she taught us but that doesn’t matter. I make it up as I go along. Enjoy!

    Annie Lennox – Wonderful

    (If you have trouble viewing this video, please click here.)

    I personally prefer the recorded version but couldn’t find it on youtube. But this one’s still awesome.

    :: happy Wednesday, lovies. hope it’s a glamorous one. ::

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    The Music Snack comes out every Wednesday to put a little rhythm in your week. Requests are always welcome, so don’t be shy!

  • February15th

    No one around. It’s just me. No judgements. No worries. No expectations or deadlines. No one to call me a silly girl. No one to assume. No guards. No walls. Just me.

    And I’m completely free.

    And I feel undeniably sexy.

    Some women feel this way when taking a bath. Some when running in the wee hours of the morning. Some while driving with the windows down. And others while cooking in the kitchen. It’s the moments when a woman feels 100%, inexplicably, unapologetically sexy. It creeps in when all guards are down. When optimum comfort levels are reached and the truth flows free of obstacles.

    If you’re one of my many female readers, you know exactly what I’m talking about and just how wondrous these moments are. [If you're one of my male readers, then congratulations for getting a sneak peak into this one.] We all know our moments. And we all have our own personal reasons behind these moments. And even if they don’t make sense to anyone else, they make perfect sense to us.

    For example, if you happen to catch me walking down the beach on a late Friday afternoon or out during my early morning walk/jogs around my neighborhood, odds are very likely you’re going to see me dancing at some point. I’m not performing for anyone. I’m not putting on a show. I’m dancing for me. Just me. That’s one of my moments. I’m in my own world, music coursing through my veins, absolutely free, completely vulnerable, feeling more alive and sexy than words can even describe, and I absolutely love every second of it.

    I can’t deny it. And I’m not afraid to own it. (No matter how ridiculous or silly it may look / seem / sound / appear to others.) To me it is one of the most natural, empowering, amazing forces in the world. Being completely in the moment and unguarded, and at the same time confident and relaxed is the ultimate recipe in feeling truly sexy. No one can give that to me and no one can take that away from me. And I, for one, kind of like having that power.

    Don’t get me wrong, high heels are great. Lingerie is fun. A doting companion makes life’s passion come alive. But when it comes to feeling unabashedly sexy – that’s up to me. Just me.

    photo credit: 1, 2
  • February7th

    :: Well that’s good to know. ::

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    When you need a little more than a smile or a cup of tea to get your week in motion, the Sassy Starter will be here every Monday to get your wheels turnin’ in a classy – sassy – fabulous sort of way

    photo credit: Ingrid Bergman IMDb
  • January24th

    Phenomenal Woman

    Pretty women wonder where my secret lies.
    I’m not cute or built to suit a fashion model’s size
    But when I start to tell them,
    They think I’m telling lies.
    I say,
    It’s in the reach of my arms
    The span of my hips,
    The stride of my step,
    The curl of my lips.
    I’m a woman
    Phenomenally.
    Phenomenal woman,
    That’s me.

    I walk into a room
    Just as cool as you please,
    And to a man,
    The fellows stand or
    Fall down on their knees.
    Then they swarm around me,
    A hive of honey bees.
    I say,
    It’s the fire in my eyes,
    And the flash of my teeth,
    The swing in my waist,
    And the joy in my feet.
    I’m a woman
    Phenomenally.
    Phenomenal woman,
    That’s me.

    Men themselves have wondered
    What they see in me.
    They try so much
    But they can’t touch
    My inner mystery.
    When I try to show them
    They say they still can’t see.
    I say,
    It’s in the arch of my back,
    The sun of my smile,
    The ride of my breasts,
    The grace of my style.
    I’m a woman

    Phenomenally.
    Phenomenal woman,
    That’s me.

    Now you understand
    Just why my head’s not bowed.
    I don’t shout or jump about
    Or have to talk real loud.
    When you see me passing
    It ought to make you proud.
    I say,
    It’s in the click of my heels,
    The bend of my hair,
    the palm of my hand,
    The need of my care,
    ‘Cause I’m a woman
    Phenomenally.
    Phenomenal woman,
    That’s me.

    - Maya Angelou

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    When you need a little more than a smile or a cup of tea to get your week in motion, the Sassy Starter will be here every Monday to get your wheels turnin’ in a classy – sassy – fabulous sort of way

  • January12th

    Ever since last week’s Music Snack I’ve been on quite the 90′s kick. Zipping through songs like it’s my job, I found myself stuck in 90′s R&B – some of the best R&B there is. Bringing back memories both good and bad. Laughing and tearing up a bit. There’s so many songs I wanted to put up this week, All Saints Never Ever, Blackstreet No Diggity, Allure All Cried Out, but I could only choose one. (I added links to the others mentioned for your entertainment, of course.)

    I remember the first time I saw this music video. I was in the 3rd grade and I was in awe. (a perk to having older siblings – unsupervised MTV time) Even though I had no idea what the words really meant, I wanted to be one of those girls. I would practice the dance moves in front of the mirror, using one of my winter gloves as a substitute for the black satin gloves they wore. I memorized the song even though I knew I wasn’t supposed too. And I had no idea why, and I wouldn’t figure out why till much later in life, but I wanted to be them. I really really wanted to be them.

    Add on 18 years of life experiences and this song still ignites a spark. I realize now why I wanted to be them. They were sexy without being raunchy. They were confident without being over-bearing. They were seductive and alluring without hiding or holding back what was on their mind. They knew how to navigate the fine line. I mean, we are talking about the ladies of En Vogue, here. It’s expected.

    En Vogue – Giving Him Something He Can Feel

    (if you have trouble viewing this video, please click here)

    Even though I didn’t know why back then, I know why now. Gotta hand it to my younger self for recognizing the sass at such a young age. Maybe Sassy is in the Soul. At least it seems to be in mine.

    How about yours?

    …. livin in a world of ghetto life …. everyone is so uptight …. heyyy eyyy eeeee ….

    {happy Wednesday, dolls}

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    The Music Snack comes out every Wednesday to put a little rhythm in your week. Requests are always welcome, so don’t be shy!