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  • December15th

    This song always makes me think of the Holidays …and taking a break from the craziness, curling up on the couch next to a fire, with a glass of wine, and … well … you can fill in the rest ;)

    Dean Martin – Baby It’s Cold Outside

    (if you have trouble viewing this video, please click here)

    Sometimes it’s better to stay inside, wouldn’t you agree?

    Have a wonderful Wednesday.

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    The Music Snack comes out every Wednesday to put a little rhythm in your week. Requests are always welcome, so don’t be shy!

  • December13th

    After throwing all the names from the site, twitter and facebook into a hat, I’m super excited to announce the winner of the Stocking Stuffer Give Away #1.

    Drum roll please. The winner of the philosophy holiday tin is

    Tisha D. – “I sure hope it is all a matter of perspective. Otherwise I might be in a lot of trouble!”

    Congratulations, Tisha! And *Thank You* to everyone who participated. The fun’s not over yet because today starts a whole new Give Away!

    Stocking Stuffer Give Away #2 is a bag of goodies from one of my favorites – Anne Taintor. You love the sass, the smirks, & the winks, so here’s your chance to snag some of her clever sayings. Items included are:

    “looking for trouble? look no further.” magnet
    “an attitude is a terrible thing to waste.” post-it notes
    “just file it under “who cares?”" – mini-note pad & case

    As always, entering is simple. You can leave a comment here on the post, on Twitter or our Facebook page! [Just make sure you tag The SSM] Last time you told us if you would fall on the naughty or nice list…this time tell us what you like dressing up for better: Tacky Christmas Party or Cocktail Christmas Party and why?

    I think I’m more of a Cocktail Christmas Party kind of gal …. but then again I can never resist pulling out the Candy Cane tights or over the top crazy Christmas jewelry.

    The Stocking Stuffer Give Away #2 ends this Saturday (the 18th) at mid-night and the winner will be announced next Monday afternoon. So what it is ladies?? Tacky or Cocktail?! Cocktail or Tacky?!

    As long as it’s a celebration it all evens out in the end. Cheers!

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    Photos & Items can be found at Anne Taintor.

  • November15th

    On a lovely Saturday afternoon, lounging on the couch after a full day of roaming the streets of Downtown City by the Sea, the conversation over wine and cheese with a dear friend turned to the subject of having framed pictures of yourself in your house. My friend had had professional photos done a few years back [ for no reason at all - my favorite kind! ] and questioned whether or not to print one of her favorites to display in her home.

    For me there was no question to debate – why would you not want to have a picture of yourself framed and on display in your very own home? You frame pictures of your family, of your dog, of your friends, all things you love dearly, so why on Earth would you hesitate to frame a picture of yourself that makes you feel beautiful, or stunning, or sexy, or all of the above?

    How is it that these notions are reserved for celebrities only, and often times the everyday women can be seen as vain or conceited if they have themselves displayed? That’s quite nonsensical if you ask me! And so, ladies, it is time to banish those thoughts and get yourself to the printer. Take your absolute favorite picture of yourself (or even 2 or 3), print it – however large you want it to be – frame it, then place it somewhere you pass each and every day, multiple times a day. Every time you see your framed self, remember why that picture is your favorite, feel whatever feelings led you to love that particular picture so much – whether it’s because you look sexy, or cute, or sassy, or sophisticated – and carry those feelings with you for the rest of the day. Don’t question or debate, don’t worry what someone else might think…just do it.

    I think you might be surprised just how much seeing that one new detail can change your days.

    I have a few of my shots from Good Graces Photography printed out and strategically placed around my room. There’s no harm in an extra boost and a slight smirk before walking out the door to take on the world.

    Where are you going to put {yourself} ?

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    When you need a little more than a smile or a cup of tea to get your week in motion, the Sassy Starter will be here every Monday to get your wheels turnin’ in a classy – sassy – fabulous sort of way.

  • November1st

    …no really…where’s my pink jeep & beach house??!

    Prints and various items of this {plus more classically hilarious & truthful one liners} can be purchased at Mary Phillips Designs.

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    When you need a little more than a smile or a cup of tea to get your week in motion, the Sassy Starter will be here every Monday to get your wheels turnin’ in a classy – sassy – fabulous sort of way.

  • October11th

    Remember your manners. Always act a lady.

    Don’t go putting your business out there for everyone to see.


    And for Heaven’s sake, keep your knees together and your feet on the floor.


    *Happy Birthday to my Mother who’s birthday was last Friday. I’m not at liberty to say how young she is – as a true lady never reveals her age – but it’s always worth continuing the celebration a few more days. Thank you Mary Alyce, for never giving up on us, no matter how many rules we broke. {…or break}

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    When you need a little more than a smile or a cup of tea to get your week in motion, the Sassy Starter will be here every Monday to get your wheels turnin’ in a classy – sassy – fabulous sort of way.

    photo credit: here